Betrayal, Blame, and The Aftermath

Betrayal, Blame, and The Aftermath

Blame the Perpetrator In our culture, there is this innate sense to blame and justify our anger as a result of someone else’s behavior.  Now don’t get me wrong, I wholeheartedly believe in the vows of marriage with trust and monogamy, unless otherwise agreed upon by...
Partner Betrayal and Trauma

Partner Betrayal and Trauma

For Better or Worse In the beginning of a romantic relationship, nobody ever expects their love to be challenged by betrayal or emotional abuse.  It starts out so subtle, and the warning signs can go unnoticed or even be dismissed because “this couldn’t really be...
The Fiercely Independent Woman

The Fiercely Independent Woman

Fiercely Independent Women It’s not a coincidence that my practice consists of fiercely independent women who are high functioning, highly successful, present themselves as self-confident in the work environment, are self motivated, and who attract others because of...
Betrayal, Blame, and The Aftermath

The Power of Contempt

Contempt This is one of those emotions that most people couldn’t define.  In fact, when I initially thought about this word all I could think of was the offense of being disobedient to or disrespectful of a court of law, i.e. contempt of court.  Yet I have heard this...
What Healthy Relationships Need

What Healthy Relationships Need

What People Want We are wired for connection and belonging. Most people crave a loving relationship and companionship.  Millions of dollars are spent every year on self-help books to try to improve or sustain happiness in relationships. What Healthy Relationships Need...